That feeling didn't disappear. It grew.

Two children became three in just a few years, and while many experience pressure to return to something else, Frederikke found peace in motherhood itself. She shaped her life around her children – not as a compromise, but as an active choice.

But at the same time, another realization began to take shape.

Working with births, with women, with the transition to becoming a family. Not as a career to be achieved – but as a natural extension of the life she was already living.

She started midwifery school, where she miraculously got in through quota 2.

Being a student with three small children requires structure, prioritization, and flexibility. But precisely this flexibility also became a strength – and a way to create a daily life that works.

“I like that every day isn't the same. That some days I can have my children at home, and other days be in the clinic. It gives a freedom that suits the way we want to live.”